Walk on egg shalls

A relationship is not only about the “I Love You”s. It’s all about being there for one another and being a supportive partner through everything.

Before questioning do research. It is easy to judge someone when you think only your perspective is right. Listen to what other partner have to say rather than telling them what they should say.

Sometimes all you have to do is just listen. Don’t try to give them the answers and fix them when you, nor they, don’t know what the problem is.

A woman has to convince the man she sees him the way he sees himself.
A man has to convince the woman to see herself as the way he sees her.

Love isn’t about having a lot of things in common with each other, it’s about having the best understanding of each other’s differences.

Love requires support. It’s necessary to support the other person when they are down, but both people need this and have to do it or it becomes parasitic.

Falling in love is easy but building a forever takes patience.

Handle your partner with kid gloves.

Remember ” A loveless life is living death “

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Go with the flow

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see….

— John lennon

Humans are dreaming all the time.

The reward feels good, and we keep doing what others want us to do in
order to get the reward. With that fear of being punished and that fear of not
getting the reward, we start pretending to be what we are not, just to please
others, just to be good enough for someone else. We try to please Mom and
Dad, we try to please the teachers at school, and so we start acting. We pretend to be what we are not because we are afraid of
being rejected. The fear of being rejected becomes the fear of not being good
enough. Eventually we become someone that we are not.

We know we are not what we believe we are supposed to be and so we feel
false, frustrated, and dishonest. We try to hide ourselves, and we pretend to be
what we are not. The result is that we feel unauthentic and wear social masks to
keep others from noticing this.

In your whole life nobody has ever abused you more than you have abused
yourself. And the limit of your self-abuse is exactly the limit that you will
olerate from someone else. If someone abuses you a little more than you abuse
yourself, you will probably walk away from that person. But if someone abuses
you a little less than you abuse yourself, you will probably stay in the
relationship and tolerate it endlessly.

If you abuse yourself very badly, you can even tolerate someone who beats
you up, humiliates you, and treats you like dirt. Why? Because in your belief
system you say, “I deserve it. This person is doing me a favor by being with
me. I’m not worthy of love and respect. I’m not good enough.”
We have the need to be accepted and to be loved by others, but we cannot
accept and love ourselves. The more self-love we have, the less we will
experience self-abuse. Self-abuse comes from self-rejection, and self-rejection
comes from having an image of what it means to be perfect and never measuring
up to that ideal. Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves; it is
why we don’t accept ourselves the way we are, and why we don’t accept others the way they are.

Stop being quacks in one’s foot whatever the situation is, as little fire is quickly trodden out.

Be real and practice what you preach.

womenism

No matter is it good or bad, every idea can be presented as a quest for freedom. Last century showed us that feminism is, still today, trapped between two ideologies.
Democracy without feminism would be a bondage in the form of saying “Behind every great man, there’s a great woman”. We as a society do not need that kind of intellectual thinking anymore.We need everyone to be a feminist. Feminism is the fight for the equality of sexes, not for the domination of one sex over another.

Both men and women do not directly say feminism is good or bad, but their behaviors show their attitude. Some men do not like to be controlled by women, even though their bosses are women. Why? Because they still believe that men are the center of the world and more powerful than women.
Most parents in india think that men should pay attention to their careers and the women should be family-centered. Even though females can get jobs as males, but they are not paid the same level as males. Women still are in risk of dismissal, because they might give birth to a child one day.
Women should all realize that we have the same rights as men. The society also needs to start to accept feminism.Feminism change the society only to better.

Feminism’s agenda is basic: It asks that women not be forced to choose between public justice and private happiness.

On the up and up

Loyalty isn’t grey. It’s black and white. You’re either loyal completely, or not loyal at all.
I done lots of mistakes in past and as I’m getting older, I’m really learning unconditional love and loyalty are extremely important.
When you have certain task and responsibilities you become devoted to completing them and staying on top of your game. You become devoted to performing at your very best and you make sure the least amount of mistakes is made. If you dig deeper you will see that being devoted to something is also a way of being loyal. Strive to be devoted to what you are trying to accomplish and you will also find yourself being loyal to what you are doing.

You give loyalty, you’ll get it back. You give love, you’ll get it back.

Respect is earned.

Honesty is appriciated.

Trust is gained.

Loyalty is returned.

Peace of mind

Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

As it said “Nobody can bring you peace but yourself”

Peace of mind comes from not wanting to change others.

Negative emotions destroy our peace of mind.

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Don’t let people pull you into their storms. Pull them into your peace.

To discover your goal and put it into action-instead of worrying on the sidelines- is to find peace of mind.

Gratitude is one of the sweet shortcuts to finding peace of mind and happiness inside.

I’m learning to walk away from situations or people who threaten my peace of mind, self-respect, or self-worth.

Never be in a hurry; do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inner peace for anything whatever, even if your whole world seems upset.

At the end of the day I am at peace because My intentions are good and my heart is pure.

Get up and go.

Get up from yesterday, look at today and plan for tomorrow.

Don’t wait for it to happen. Make it happen. Make your own fire in belly. Make your own mark. Make your own love. Dig deeper into your dreams and deeper into yourself and believe that anything is possible and make it happen. You have to believe great things are going to happen in your life.Do everything you can-prepare,pray and achieve to make it happen.Be brave and be fearless. stand up and face your fears, or they will defeat you.

Remember beast mode doesn’t make excuses.it doesn’t complain.

keep pushing.figure it out, go to sleep and wake up to a new person.

Today’s pain is tomorrow’s power.

keep yourself motivated. You’ve got to be motivated, you’ve got to wake up everyday and understand what that day is about.your mental health should be a priority.No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell.whatever is worrying you right now, forget about it.it would be eventually okay. may be not today ,may be not tomorrow but someday you’ll get over to it.